Hi, I had mine done 7 weeks ago at the pharmacy where I get my prescriptions filled, they thought I was joking at first, the 2 young girls who did it, one on each side at the same time, didn't offer any care advice, except to use the antiseptic spray regularly, they did ask if I would be wearing hoops so, without explaining why, they did the piercing higher up in the cartilage above the lobe, apparently this takes longer to heal but is less likely to stretch with heavy hoops.
Observations:
Don't take the studs or rings out for at least 4 - 6 weeks, I did & had major trouble trying to get the studs back in, couldn't get them to start, then couldn't find the exit hole, had to push one through, which hurt a lot more than the original piercing.
Most people either don't notice or a don't care, all the comments I've had are from female friends & none have made anything of having both done, I reply that I'm celebrating my retirement.
I'm sure it will get easier, but at the moment I have major problems fitting the keeper to the back of the studs, small girl fingers would probably help, some keepers click onto the stud & are very secure, others seem to rely on suction at the back of the ear & can fall out, particularly while sleeping, I've started using small hoops at night.
Hoops & shepherds hooks are much easier to put in, though the hooks can fall out if your doing something energetic.
I had no infection issues, though I was careful to use the spray liberally, I've found that using a lubricant, just a touch on the end, helps with fitting & I'm sure I'll be wondering why it seemed so difficult as time goes by.
Overall I'm glad I had them done, much more comfortable than clip-ons & more choice & availability